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I'm not one of those parents that freely have the TV on for background noise throughout the day. Truth be told, I'm a little bit of a character snob, and not only am I kinda proud of the fact that my little ones have no idea what/who Yo Gabba Gabba, Wonderpets, and all the other big TV hits for kids are, but I'm also sort of happy that my pair don't have a single character on a piece of clothing in the closet (well, except for the Cars shirt that was a freebie from their cousin, but I haven't actually broken my resolve and had Sam wear it yet). I really don't care if any other kids wear that kind of stuff, but it just isn't for me.
I also seriously considered the AAP recommendation for no screen time for children before age two. Being a teacher, I've seen the effects of an over-plugged in childhood become an epidemic. Sam and Anna did not watch any TV before they were one. We did not have it on while they were awake, unless it was for a second to check the weather or score of a game. However, when Sam and Anna turned a year old, one of their first birthday presents was a DVD of Baby Signing Time.

I was torn between my resolve for zero TV, and the benefit I saw from watching Baby Signing Time DVDs. Because of my background (my mother took care of a deaf child while I was younger and did baby sign before it was the "in" thing to do, and I took college courses in ASL which I used to incorporate signing into my classroom), I was determined to use baby sign with Sam and Anna. I was also frustrated that because I am a full-time working outside the home mother, I wouldn't get the time I wanted during the day to reinforce signs with them. Once I read Ellie's endorsement of Baby Signing Time on her blog, I was hooked and my resolve against zero TV faltered.
Sam and Anna now watch Baby Signing Time DVDs about 3-4 times a week and have since their first birthday. Each DVD is 30ish minutes long. They do not watch it every day mostly because we don't have the spare time, and I also do not plug them in and walk away to get stuff done. I sign with them, sing with them, and help them make the signs with their own bodies. They love Baby Signing Time. It helps us get through the sometimes cranky time from home-from-daycare until dinner is ready with out crabby kids. It helps break up a rainy inside weekend day. I don't regret changing my mind one bit- I have seen not only their signing vocabulary grow by leaps and bounds with the DVDs (I've given up keeping a count of how many signs they know at this point), but their verbal vocabulary as well. Between 1 year and 18 months, they were more aware of labels for items for things that they associated signs with. By seeing them sign while attempting to say a word, I can tell that they are saying things that I probably would otherwise miss. As they are forming the basis for concepts of print for beginning to read, they are seeing the word labels for the signs and connecting the written word to its meaning.
The best unknown benefit? I've discovered a super secret weapon for temper tantrums! When out in public or at home, if one of them starts to get unhappy, starting to sing and sign the Baby Signing Time theme song will trigger them to stop- it has worked every time I've tried. They just love watching it that much.
3 comments:
I love Baby Signing time. I have the app on my phone and have used it to learn signs to share with the babies.
We are also trying to go by the no-tv-until at least 2 recommendation, but I often wonder if we are missing out because we are not using educational videos (like Baby Signing Time).
You and I have a very similar approach to the television. Our girls have no idea about any of those television shows, and they also don't have any characters on any of their clothes---I, too, am very proud of that. I don't want television being the primary informant in their world. I'd much prefer for Brad and I, and books to inform their experience instead. I'd love for them to fall in love with characters in books, rather than on TV.
I think you've referenced Baby Signing Time before, and I've heard other people rave about it. I'd love to check it out. Our girls love to sign, but I've just looked up signs online and done it on my own based on the one college ASL course I took.
Sometimes I wish I had something like this to use as a guide, because I don't often know what signs would be useful with the girls, until I need them!
And...I love that you can sing the song and prevent meltdowns. I'm all for preventing meltdowns---that's awesome that just singing that song does that for Sam and Anna! Wow!
Thanks so much for linking up! I always love hearing what you have to say, Katie, I respect your parenting style so much.
Just now reading your comment on my blog! Such warm fuzzies! Thanks! Yep, definitely I feel that I can relate to you on so many levels. :) Except, I have a special respect for kindergarten teachers! And also, I am often in awe of everything you do with your twins!
We discovered PBS Kids this summer and I have to admit, I like some of the shows. I like Clifford, Curious George, and Martha Speaks. They actually have some substance.
We've started signing some, which is nice. The new sitter got them into it. Those DVD's definitely seem like something we should look into!
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